It’s Time to Demand Better: How You Can Help Protect Children Online
The numbers are impossible to ignore. One in ten young people will experience cybergrooming. Reports of child sextortion rose 66% in a single year. AI-generated child sexual abuse material increased by thousands of percent in twelve months. Behind every one of those statistics is a child — a real young person who was targeted, manipulated, and harmed by a system that was never designed with their safety as a priority.
This is not an abstract problem. It is happening on the apps your children use every day, on platforms that have chosen engagement over protection, in a legal environment that has for too long shielded the powerful from accountability. And it will continue to grow unless the people who care most — families, communities, advocates — make clear that the status quo is no longer acceptable.
The Problem Isn’t Just Predators
It is easy to focus on individual offenders — and they absolutely must be held accountable. But cybergrooming does not happen in a vacuum. It happens on platforms that profit from engagement while investing minimally in child safety. It happens in a legal landscape where companies face little meaningful liability for the harm that occurs on their services. It happens in schools and communities where adults are not always equipped to recognize the warning signs or respond effectively when a child comes forward.
Predators are not the only ones who owe children better. The platforms that provide them access do too. The legislators who have allowed accountability gaps to persist do too. And as a society, so do we — every time we treat online abuse as less serious than physical abuse, every time we ask what a child was doing to invite contact rather than why adults in positions of power failed to protect them.
Find the Interactive Map of Cyber Sexploitation Laws on the Cyberbullying Research Center website
What Needs to Change?
Platforms must be held accountable. The legal frameworks that have shielded technology companies from liability for harm occurring on their services were not designed with children in mind. If a platform’s features are being systematically exploited to groom and abuse minors, that platform has a responsibility to address it — and the law should require them to. Self-regulation has not worked. Meaningful, enforceable standards must take its place.
AI development must prioritize safety from the outset. The explosion of AI-generated child sexual abuse material is not an unforeseeable consequence — it is a predictable result of building powerful generative tools without embedding safety protections from the start. Mandatory pre-market safety assessments, built-in risk mitigation, and robust content moderation standards are not unreasonable demands. They are the minimum threshold for responsible development.
Legislation must keep pace with technology. Gaps in state and federal law leave children exposed to emerging forms of harm that existing statutes were never written to address. Legislators at every level need to hear from constituents that updating these protections is a priority — not a niche concern, but a fundamental obligation to the children in their communities.
Families need real tools, not just restrictions. Research is clear that simply blocking access to the internet does not protect children — it only delays exposure while leaving them without the understanding they need to recognize and respond to risk. Education, open conversation, and instructive guidance are what actually build resilience. Families deserve access to resources that support this kind of meaningful preparation.
What You Can Do Right Now
You do not need to be a legislator or a technology executive to make a difference. Advocacy starts with awareness, and awareness starts with conversations like this one.
Talk to your children. Not to frighten them, but to equip them. Make sure they know that grooming is designed to feel normal, that it is never their fault, and that they can come to you without fear of judgment or blame. The single most protective thing a child can have is a trusted adult they believe will listen.
Stay informed about the platforms your children use. Understand what moderation policies exist, what features create risk, and whether the platforms your child uses have a meaningful commitment to child safety or simply a public relations statement about it.
Contact your representatives. Legislators respond to constituent pressure. Let yours know that platform accountability, AI safety regulation, and updated child protection laws are issues you care about and will vote on. A brief, direct message carries more weight than most people realize.
Support organizations working on this issue. There are dedicated nonprofits, helplines, and advocacy groups working every day to remove abusive content, support survivors, and push for systemic change. Finding and supporting the ones doing credible work in this space is one of the most direct ways to contribute.
Believe children when they come forward. This may be the most important thing on this list. The barriers to disclosure are already enormous — shame, self-blame, fear of not being believed. A child who finds the courage to speak deserves to be met with support, not skepticism. How we respond when children tell us what happened to them determines whether others feel safe enough to do the same.
The Window to Act Is Now
The data from 2025 and 2026 shows a problem that is accelerating, not stabilizing. The tools available to offenders are becoming more powerful. The platforms they operate on remain largely unaccountable. The legal frameworks meant to protect children are lagging behind the technology they need to address.
But the public consensus for change has never been stronger. More than four in five adults support mandatory safety standards for AI development. Parents, educators, and child safety professionals are speaking with increasing urgency. The momentum exists. What it needs now is sustained, organized pressure from people who refuse to accept that this level of harm to children is simply the cost of living in a digital world.
It is not. Children deserve better. And we have both the means and the obligation to demand it.
Relevant Links
Reporting
- Home Page – Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3)
- CyberTipline (National Center for Missing & Exploited Children)
- Report Remove (Childline U.K.)
- Enough is Enough (U.S.)
Education
- How to Recognize Digital Grooming
- What Parents Need to Know About Sexual Grooming (NSPCC)
- Which States criminalize AI-generated CSAM material?
Legal
Child Abuse Prevention Organizations
- Eliminating Child Sexual Abuse Online | Internet Watch Foundation IWF
- EnoughAbuse.org
- Child Welfare Information Gateway
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